I am no masochist, who proponents the state of misery that comes from one sided love. I am a firm believer in the importance of one’s self respect.But what hurts more, being in a relationship with a weak foundation or being their significant other sans any tags. The former indicates a self inflicted delusion. While the latter brings you in a vulnerable state where you experience the feeling of being loved and the hurt of no commitment from them. Yet at times it’s actually worth it to let yourself be subjected to a state of uncertainty. I will try to put forward a different perspective to what I am trying to say. Here is Why you Shouldn’t let them Go, Even If It Breaks your Heart (Do read how he falls in love)
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”
― Bob Marley
This quote by Bob Marley is one of my favorites. Read it once, read it twice, and I am sure you’d be able to sense that implicit courage with which it’s woven. We are often torn between trying again and letting go. There are people who care but are a little poor at expressing it. Is your loved one somewhat like that? Here are some reasons why you should hang on to your love and suffer the hurt! Not “suffer” but persist. (What if you could just find the right person? this is how)
You love them exactly for the person they are right now:
Trust me this can actually help you reason that why you Shouldn’t let them Go, Even If It Breaks your Heart. No, you don’t want any bit of their behavior to change. If you are ready to practice acceptance, only then it makes sense to stay, because often we continue to be with people dreaming about the version we’d want them to be, or hoping that they’d magically sooner or later be that person and end up getting disappointed.
You have absolutely no expectations:
This may sound a little ironical, but let me tell you that Why you Shouldn’t let them Go, Even If It Breaks your Heart. Often the first reasons why we stick around a person is because that we are expecting a future with them. Don’t! the moment you expect, you get bound to feel let down. If you’re ready to simply love them, nurture them, support them sans any expectations in return, trust me the hurt no longer feels like hurt. It’s a liberating experience which makes you strong beyond excitability.
This does’t affect you negatively in any aspect:
If holding on makes you compromise on your happiness, it screws up your mental peace or it infuses any form of negativity in your life, it’s better to let go. Yes, hurt isn’t always bad. But I am not asking anyone to stay close to toxicity. Just ask yourself, are they worth it? Trust me the answer isn’t hard to find, in most cases deep down we ourselves know what future we hold with them. (This is why you should let go, even if you haven’t moved on)
“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”
― Bob Marley
Somewhere deep down even they don’t want to let go of You:
Do I need to say more? that Why you Shouldn’t let them Go, Even If It Breaks your Heart. You fight, you cry, you shout, you annoy, yet the two of you continue to come back to one another? Why is that so? Have you ever tried to ponder? No matter how much life tries to drift the two of you apart, you continue to cross paths one way or the other. Hurt is sometimes worth it, if the other person too isn’t ready to let you go.No relationship can be all roses, at the end it all comes down to fighting the thorns together. (At times you need to give them another chance)
And what can put your thoughts to rest besides an empathetic soft rock song. Listen and read on my romantic souls out there! Be proud of what your heart feels, we need more people who still think and love from their hearts,and not their minds.