Why It’s Time to Let Go even when you Haven’t moved on
The thought itself can send shivers down one’s spine. But don’t let love divorce you from your rationality. Love like they say is blind, but remember that you don’t have to be. There comes a time when you need to realize that it’s time to let go.
“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
― Shannon L. Alder
It’s Time to Let Go when efforts aren’t mutual: It’s often said that either we move on or we get dragged. At times your love isn’t just enough for the two of you to cross the bridge. Remember, that you can’t do much if the other person isn’t even ready to move, while you’ve walked miles hoping for things to work out.
It’s Time to Let Go When all you see is broken hopes : The right person wouldn’t have broken them in the first place. Period. (Don’t forget to check out on how to love a damaged soul)
It’s Time to Let Go when toxicity is all that the relationship exudes: You love, you get hurt and yet you continue to love. Let go if it has started to bring you more tears and numbness than serenity.
It’s Time to Let Go when the mental distances become wider than the physical ones: Forget about those embraces for a moment, a communication gap would screw up your mind way bad. Allow your heart to heal, and it won’t till the time you don’t take a stand to let go.
It’s Time to Let Go when they have been incapable of making you their priority: As simple as that but look at the irony, yet so many of us continue to tread upon the same road which has no certain destination. Don’t settle, be stronger, let go, you deserve greater things. (Do read on why you shouldn’t settle for anyone)
It’s Time to Let Go because the a chapter is waiting to be written: For all the negativity that has till now clouded your life, you must give change a chance. Push yourself towards what is right even if it scares you.
So take a step back, contemplate on all the great things that are about to happen, and let go off all the poison you both have turned into for one another. Give happiness a chance, even if the two of you have to experience it separately. Its better than being together and hurting one another. 🙂
P.S. for all the lazy bum readers here is a good video I wanted to share with you all.